You Only Realize The Importance Of Something When You Lose It

A star means nothing until it is taken from us. It’s sad, but that’s the way it is. It’s hard to value every detail and every presence.

We don’t know the value of everyday things, and because we take them for granted, we overlook their true value.

Thus, it is when we want it the least that we see ourselves in the obligation to look through this door which closes in the hope that it remains partially open and that it leaves us time to recover what it’s on the other side.

It may already be too late, and the grief of this loss may make us inconsolably cry over this thing that has ended.

If we stop for a few moments to reflect, we realize that sometimes we are unable to recognize the essentials of our life and what we really need.

We focus our mind on an idea of ​​fictitious permanence through which we try to justify our neglect of others.

We are not made of the same dough as eternity, and if someone doesn’t value our presence, we end up offering our absence to them.

We’ve all been tired of insisting and not feeling valued in return. It is therefore important to pay attention to warning signs.

Silence says more than words for those who know how to listen

Problems never arise overnight, but they are preceded by certain games of silence, anger and disagreement.

So, these behaviors are nothing more than the faithful reflection that something is locked inside of us that needs to breathe.

It is difficult to resolve difficulties when we approach important conflicts in a cold and distant way, when we no longer want to argue, when we believe that all is lost, and when we let love slowly destroy itself.

The purpose of a discussion is to confront people, otherwise it is useless. Likewise, the silences must also exist with a little mystery.

They have the function of approaching slowly and calmly; not for the purpose of the two people involved giving in, but to analyze their mistakes and find an understanding between them.

Silences and discussions bring us together if we know how to understand them, if we approach and recognize their existence, with their anger, their hostility and each of the ingredients that compose them.

While disagreements encourage us to reunite, we can enjoy the pleasure of seeing people who had drifted away without having to say goodbye to them.

Don’t say goodbye if you wanna try again

Never say goodbye if you want to try again, never admit defeat if you feel you can keep fighting, never tell someone you don’t love them anymore if you can’t let them go.

Never say goodbye that way, because saying goodbye means disappearing. And to disappear means to forget.

We have the unfortunate tendency not to value enough what we have at the present moment, and to appreciate it only too late.

When we realize that we have let go of a beautiful part of our life, we suffer.

It can happen just as things break or later, but what is certain is that the pain will be felt sooner or later.

You only realize the importance of something when you lose it , and you don’t know what you’re losing until you realize it.

Remember that love is filled with everyday details, attentions, concerns, and even anger.