If You Want To Make A Difference, Start By Acting Differently!
We all know people around us who constantly complain but refuse to change. Complaining when something goes wrong is quite natural. But, when the problem is still the same, what needs to be changed is the approach, not the thing in question.
If something doesn’t work, and we keep doing the same thing, it will never get better. If we want changes in our life, our actions must also change.
Take the example of someone who has a group of friends that they go out with regularly, but some things don’t seem right to them: they often arrive late, are not very responsible, and when they are planning something , it’s no wonder they cancel at the last minute, without giving others time to plan other activities.
And this person complains a lot about it, because he is embarrassed by the situation. The question one can ask is, why isn’t she looking to meet new people?
This person may appreciate their friends, think they are great people, but if their outlook on life is drastically different from theirs, it can generate a lot of tension and frustration.
It is often difficult to change, to leave what you know to start something new, whether at the level of work, romantic relationships or friendships.
But if something doesn’t satisfy you, it’s worth exploring new paths. Otherwise, you will endlessly go through all the things that bother you, such as the irresponsibility of the friends of the person in our example, and end up not enjoying what you do.
By constantly giving new chances to their friends, this person will most certainly go from disappointment to disappointment, without anything that bothers them changing one day.
You will enter a vicious circle in which you will be more and more permissive, and you will find excuses for incorrect behavior which nevertheless hurts and frustrates you.
After a while, the frustration will take over and you will find that those things that bother you need to be eliminated from your life.
You will then be able to enjoy new moments, other people or different things, which suit you better, which are more suited to you and simply make you happier.
If you change in your actions, in the way you look at things, you will be able to find situations that suit you.
If you wait for changes to come from outside, you can wait a long time. Everyone must take their responsibilities, because things do not change by themselves.
We cannot put the blame on other people, and make them feel guilty for being who they are. In life, there are endless opportunities. If you are in a situation that you don’t like, start looking around for other avenues.
Many people are stuck in jobs they don’t like, in friendships that don’t bring them anything positive, in marriages where there is no love, and their daily lives are a nightmare.
Starting all over again is hard work that requires a lot of consistency, but well worth it. Keep in mind that if you don’t take the initiative to change something, it won’t change on its own.
Fate is not written, it changes with our actions. There is an endless world of possibilities waiting for you, take advantage of it and don’t resign yourself to putting up with what doesn’t make you happy.
