To Be A Real Failure Is To Stop Trying To Do Something
Being afraid of failure is quite common. This fear is part of the thoughts that limit our abilities, that paralyze us and prevent us from embarking on interesting projects, simply because we think they are not within our reach.
However, to experience real failure is to stop trying to do something for fear of failure ; Allowing yourself to make mistakes is the essence of learning in all aspects of life.
“Every failure teaches the home something he needed to learn”
-Charles Dickens-
In the first few months of life, we do nothing more than try to cope with every step we take ; we fall, we get up, we try, we analyze, and we explore the world around us.
We wouldn’t have learned to walk if we hadn’t had the courage to face each of our falls. The same goes for all important learning: in order to learn, we had to make efforts as well as endure setbacks.
Confront the difficult moments of life
The difficult times that we are all forced to face in our lifetimes are of great value. Not only do they allow us to evolve, but in addition, they help us to understand and acquire the value of the effort.
Thanks to the difficulties that present themselves to us, we harden ourselves and we acquire new capacities that help us to face each of the challenges that we encounter.
These obstacles can be thoughts, fears, circumstances, etc. The important thing is to deal with these difficulties, in order to understand why they are there, what role they play for us, and what lesson can be learned from them.
“Sometimes, to achieve balance,
you have to learn to stop
on the stones of our way ”
There is a precious learning that can be discovered if we become aware of the type of things that we avoid, that we face, and that we automatically dismiss because we believe that we will not be able to. reach them.
If we feel uncomfortable with a situation, unconsciously, we will do everything possible so that this situation does not materialize, however beneficial and enviable it may be, and although it may allow us to take a step forward. more towards our dreams.
The triumph can be achieved by anyone who has the courage to try to approach it.
It is very simple to think that we will not be able to get what we want, and to regard our dreams as something very distant requiring effort. Don’t try; this is what real failure is.
“The greater the attempt, the more glorious the triumph”
-William Shakespeare-
The people who truly achieve triumph are those who do not stop to complain about the effort that must be made, those who pursue each of their goals step by step until they get through everything they want. have undertaken.
These are the people who see failure as something necessary, as an opportunity to learn and improve.
These are the people who wonder every day if they are right where they are, and if they are doing what they really love, which makes them passionate.
To achieve true triumph is to have the courage to try; anyone who adopts this attitude goes forward by taking various paths to achieve their own personal success.
Success is for those who understand failure
Understanding that frustration is part of the journey requires great personal growth, since not being successful is an opportunity to change your perspective.
Failure to make something happen isn’t that frustrating if you have a clear conscience, and if you know you’ve done everything you can.
There is no point in feeling guilty or in fear of “failure” for not having been able to achieve something that we have tried to achieve, and which has required a great deal of effort.
It’s when we are able to understand failure
that we get closer to the reality of our own nature
What is really important and courageous is not about success, or even recognition from others. Rather, it lies in the learnings that we can acquire during the process, around ourselves.
Dare to try to achieve what you want, maybe you won’t get what you wanted, but what is certain is that you will not regret trying. Along the way, you may find a world full of possibilities.
